2008 was an interesting year. I feel, in many ways, like it’s far behind me, like it is a distinct and different chapter of my life entirely. It was a chapter of independence, of breakthroughs in personal honesty and truly of finding myself. This was the year that I truly came to understand who I am, who I love, and what I love. I wasn’t always right, and I’m still probably wrong or slightly off on a few things now, but I at least grew closer from where I was before.

And now it is 2009. Marriage is just around the corner and I cannot wait. I’m starting UW and I am excited to be pursuing my academic dreams. And while being laid off was an unexpected setback, it has opened doors for me to actively chase my freelance aspirations, particularly in photography, but also in web design.

But I am determined to make some resolutions, some general (and a few specific) goals to achieve by the year’s end, if only so I can look back on it later. So here we go, in no particular order other than train of thought:

1. Lose weight by the wedding — ideal weight 120lbs. Achieve this by eating right (and having it stick this time!) and exercising (just walking on campus should do it for at least the first few months, supplement with afternoon/evening walks around the neighborhood and walking on the weekends).
2. Get at least B’s in all my classes this year. Do this by improving my study skills from last quarter — set aside time for studying every day. During the morning and afternoon commute is a good time, as is extended breaks between classes.
3. Earn at least $400/month from freelance photography & web design. Work diligently at advertising and marketing — don’t be afraid to put myself out there. Try new things. Spend at least a half hour every day building my business and contacts.
4. This is one of the most important ones — keep nurturing my relationship with Randy. Never forget that the wedding is just one day to start the rest of our lives and that keeping us strong is more important than details. Never be afraid to tell him exactly how I feel or what I’m thinking. Be honest with myself and with him. Love him without condition. Show him that every day.
5. Don’t forget to plan the wedding! Stay on top of things!
6. Get better at keeping in touch with Katie and Aly. They are the two most important friends I have and I haven’t been doing a particularly good job with staying in touch. Resolve to see Aly at least once a week, see Katie at least once a month, and call Katie at least once a week.
7. Try to take my camera out somewhere with me at least once a week and challenge myself to take pictures out of my normal range.
8. Find a nice, affordable place for Randy and I to live. Create a nice atmosphere and begin healthy habits for both of us. Enjoy life spent together, even when it undoubtedly gets aggravating — always remember it’s better to be together than apart.
9. Once Randy and I are living together in Seattle, try to get a set of friends that is our own, not originally Randy’s and not originally mine… ours.
10. Learn to be a good, patient, loving, devoted, faithful wife in all things, in every way and every day.