Love what you do

January 18, 2009

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I’ve been “blogging” since the seventh grade. From age 13 to 16, however, it was definitely only of the “here’s what I did today/Dear Diary” persuasion, which, while it does have its place in every young girl’s life, did not produce any writing I am particularly fond of. However, the spring of my sophomore year I started to read other blogs, and I started to languish in the depths and intricacies of their writings, drooling over the visual aesthetics that was their backdrop. And I decided I wanted in. I wanted to expand my writing skills, I wanted to delve into the analytical side of me that had always been there and had always peeked out of my daily droll. I wanted to truly develop it, to make it something that, while useful to me in solving problems (even some I didn’t set out to solve), would be interesting for others to read. And so I created my first serious blog and titled it “Reaching Maturity.”

And I was serious about it. I wanted traffic. I did Blog Explosion every day for at least an hour that summer, and in the process, stumbled upon 9rules, and I wanted to be in, but didn’t dare try. Instead, I was offered a spot in a fledgling (now deceased) teen blog network known as Random Shapes. The community was great and helped me in many ways. Over the two years that Reaching Maturity ran, however, my zeal for immense popularity on the net had waned and I focused more on writings that I was interested in, shifting my attention to making blogging enjoyable again — mixing the new audience-driven style that I had developed with my old, intensely personal style, which is where, for the most part, I’ve arrived today. I don’t write about things unless I really, really care.

Today, I found out that I was accepted into 9rules. It was honestly a total shock. I had tried for round 7 and been rejected and tried again for 8 in November and in the intermediate two months had really given up hope on getting in, and was really at peace with that. I am really okay whether my journal becomes popular or not. That’s not what I do it for. I do this because I love to write. I always have and I most certainly always will. But nevertheless, being accepted into the so-called “elite” is still extremely encouraging. It means that my writing isn’t useless, isn’t irrelevant. And I can only hope that I continue to grow and expand my skills.

I just wanted to take a second to list the “9 Rules”:

  1. Love what you do.
  2. Never stop learning.
  3. Form works with function.
  4. Simple is beautiful.
  5. Work hard, play hard.
  6. You get what you pay for.
  7. When you talk, we listen.
  8. Must constantly improve.
  9. Respect your inspiration.

I really can honestly say I believe in all nine of those credos. And I am exceedingly happy and above all honored to be a part of this group. I can’t wait to meet all of you and get to know you better. Thank you so much Tyme, Scrivs and Mike for this opportunity!

As an aside, I’ve been working on a new design for a few weeks now, I’m going to try to get it wrapped and up relatively soon, though with my new fairly heavy course load and the photography gigs I have coming up, that might take longer than I’d like.

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5 Responses to “Love what you do”

  • Stephanie Says:



    Random Shapes is deceased? I’d've never known. Congrats on getting into 9Rules, Elyse! That’s definitely an honor. And good that you believe in the ‘nine rules’ – makes them easier to follow, heh. Keep it up!

  • Elyse Says:



    Well the website is still up, but Matt went on his mission somewhere (don’t remember where) and it pretty much went inactive.

    Thanks for the encouragement, Stephanie!

  • Logan Leger Says:



    Congratulations on getting into 9Rules! This was a great post, and I find many similarities in our paths. I guess it’s because our maturing process has been so closely intertwined, both in time and place. It’s funny, but I was recently thinking about this very thing. A lot of my close real-life friends make fun of me for the things that I write about (or otherwise just generally don’t support me), but I’ve come to realize that the real reason I write is for me. Very true.

    I remember working once with you on coding a design you had for RM–that was before I felt comfortable enough to design something for myself and before you felt comfortable enough to code something for yourself. Oh how times have changed! (BTW, if you need help again, just let me know.)

    It’s true that RS is dead, although very unfortunately. I believe he ran off to Uruguay.

  • Elyse Says:



    Thanks Logan! Not many of my friends really “get” this whole thing either. Although, with facebook imports, more of my friends have been reading what I spew and commenting over there. :)

    I vaguely remember that too — it’s nuts how long ago that feels like! And thanks for your offer of assistance, I happily return the favor if you want it. My interest in coding vs. designing wavers back and forth on a seasonal basis, so you might have to catch me at the right time ;)

    RS will always be special to me. While I didn’t make a TON of connections, I made a few that I find meaningful and important in some way or another, even if the communications are not frequent or consistent.

  • Logan Leger Says:



    Yes, of course. Random Shapes was great for networking. Also, it made me feel special. haha

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